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December Myself! Party


What: Myself! Sex-Friendly Masturbation Party
Who: CSPC Members and Invited Guests, 18+ with ID
Cost: $25 for Basic Members, $15 for Premium Members. All tickets to this party must be purchased in advance online. There will be no tickets sold at the door.
Where: Gallery Erato in Pioneer Square, 309 1st Ave S.
When: Sunday, December 23rd, 2018

  • New member orientation at 5pm

  • Doors: 6pm

  • Circle: 6:15pm (required for everyone new to Myself!)

  • Party: 7pm-11pm

For party questions email:
For membership and ticketing questions please check our FAQ before emailing!

About the Event
Myself! is a party for exhibitionists and voyeurs! This party is the only event at the CSPC where masturbation is allowed. Come show off and be admired!

By attending this event you are giving implicit consent to have people at the event watch and masturbate to whatever you are doing. That means even if you’re just sitting by the wall watching, you may be the best thing ever to other guests. We do require that attendees stay at least 3 feet back from any scene, but you will still feel the energy of those watching you at this distance.

Are you an exhibitionist? Does the thought of throngs of people getting off to your scene get you wet? Do you have a fantasy that you want to enact and have an audience watch and cheer? Then this is the party for you.

 Are you a voyeur? Do you get off on watching people play right in front of you? Do you want to peep a scene from around the corner while you get off? Come get your voyeur on!

This is not a beginners party! We offer a New Member Orientation before this event because we know that there are experienced kinksters out there that are just new to the CSPC. If this is your first time at one of our events, or at a sexy party in general, we believe there are other events that are better suited for new folks. The energy is intense at Myself! and while it is a dream come true for many, it can be overwhelming if it’s your first time.

Are you in? This party begins with an opening circle at 6:15pm that is required for anyone who is new to Myself! During circle we’ll let you know what happens, discuss our party specific rules and norms, give you chances to break the ice and learn what others are looking to do tonight.

Event Details
This party is full of perverted ideas. Wandering and wanking is ok at Myself! (Please do not drip on the floor.) We are designed for exhibitionist and voyeurs. The party name is Myself! to emphasize the personal nature of this party. What gets you excited? Stripping, lap dancing, gang bangs, bukkake, dirty talk, just watching, chatting with people, group sex, hitachi, watching porn? Come do it at Myself!

You must be willing and able to say “yes” or “no” to ride this ride. Please know your boundaries and be able to communicate them.

What Are the Rules of this event?

  • Get consent! No touch without consent.

  • If it's sexy, it's probably ok!

  • Rope, yes!

  • Impact as part of sex, yes!

  • No naked body parts on the furniture - use towels or pillowcases to sit on.

  • Wandering Self Touch is HIGHLY ENCOURAGED for everyone

  • NO DRIPPING ON THE FLOOR! (Put down a towel or pillowcase down first)

  • ABSOLUTELY No phones or electronics (with the exception of assistive hearing devices)

We have “Ask Me I Might” wristbands available that you may wear at the event (please leave it with us when you leave!) to tell other people that you are open to requests to participate or engage with you or your scene.

Suggested Wear
Everything is welcome, sexy is nice. Nudity is encouraged.

If you have questions, write Mark at

Are you a current member of the CSPC?  Purchase tickets in advance.

Note: You must be logged into your CSPC member account to purchase tickets. If you have a previous membership, you can go to this page and use Forgot Password to reset your access. Having trouble? Email for help regaining access to your account.

Not a member of the CSPC yet but want to come to this party? Register for the New Member Orientation beforehand! 

Directions and Parking
Gallery Erato is located at 309 1st Ave S. in Pioneer Square.
Pioneer Square has free on-street parking on Sunday (more info about street parking here) and paid parking lots, which you can find listed here. This neighborhood is very well served by public transportation, including many bus lines, the streetcar, and the LINK light rail. 

There is a small lip from the brick sidewalk into the Gallery. We have a wheelchair ramp to transition over this lip so that our main floor will be accessible to folks in wheelchairs. Please ask for it when you arrive and we will put it out. There is play space, refreshments, and restrooms on the main floor. Unfortunately, the basement area of our space is only accessible via stairs.