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SOLD OUT - New Member Orientation before November Myself! [in-person]

  • Gallery Erato 309 1st Avenue South Seattle, WA, 98104 United States (map)

What: CSPC New Member Orientation with Myself! Party

When-Orientation: 5:00 pm sharp (doors at 4:30 pm, please be early! Parking can take some time in this area)

When-Party: Mandatory party circle at 6:30 pm, party from 7:00-10:00 pm

Where: Gallery Erato in Pioneer Square, 309 1st Ave S

Cost: $35

Note: All tickets must be purchased online, no tickets are available at the door. You must pre-register to attend. Although Washington State gathering size restrictions have been lifted, as an extra safety precaution we have chosen to limit registration for this party to a maximum of 100 tickets (this orientation is limited to 30 new members, whose tickets to the party afterward will be included in the 100 ticket maximum).

By registering for this event, you are registering for:

  • CSPC New Member Orientation

  • A 2-month CSPC membership

  • A ticket to the Myself! Party

After the orientation, if you decide you do not want to become a member of the CSPC nor attend the party, you will be eligible to receive a refund.

Welcome to the Center for Sex Positive Culture

The Center for Sex Positive Culture creates spaces to celebrate, develop, and explore sexuality and sensuality among a diverse, supportive community.

What We Do

The Center for Sex Positive Culture encourages the exploration and celebration of the many facets of human sexuality. Through an encompassing variety of events, created by and for its membership, the CSPC seeks to educate, to facilitate consensual open sexual expression and dialogue, and to provide a venue for fellowship and community. As proponents of sex positive culture, we believe that the appropriate uses of sex extend beyond reproduction. They include creating personal pleasure, bonding interpersonal relationships, promoting spiritual growth, and enhancing emotional and physical health. In a sex positive world, everyone has the freedom and resources to pursue a fulfilling and empowering sex life.

Becoming a Member

Want to become a member of the CSPC? All members must attend a new member orientation to be able to sign up for a membership. Orientations are mostly held in the hour prior to our scheduled events, as this one is. This will go over what to expect, the etiquette, and what you can do to be successful at our party and in this community.  Space is limited and you must register in advance through our website. Signing up for our newsletter is the best way to stay informed about announcements regarding upcoming events and orientations.

Memberships are $60/year and can also be paid bimonthly ($10 for two months). Once you attend a new member orientation and purchase a membership you can manage your membership dues through our membership portal.  

Read the New Member Packet Here.

AND the party-------------------Myself!

The energy is intense at Myself! and while it is a dream come true for many, it can be overwhelming. We are really glad you are interested and we think you will have a great time. Remember to vote with your feet and if you are overwhelmed by what you are seeing, walk somewhere else. We will have staff available to chat. 

You must be willing and able to say yes or no to ride this ride. Please know your boundaries and be able to communicate them.

About the Event:

The party name is Myself! to emphasize the personal nature of this party. What gets you excited? Stripping, Lap Dancing, gang bangs, bukkake, dirty talk, just watching, chatting with people, group sex, hitachi, watching porn? Come do it at Myself!

Myself! is a wonderful sex friendly masturbation party that’s about consent, perverted ideas and watching. Opening Circle at 6:30 is required for everyone. The Gallery boasts floor space for lots of equipment, including racks, spanking benches, and mattresses, all situated against a backdrop of exposed brick and beams. There are no showers.  

Who it's for:

We have sex, masturbation, gang-bangs, pegging, dancing, spanking and fantasies coming true. If that interests you and you are over 18, this is the party for you.

Watching is an inherent part of the party, this is a great place to show off and be seen. If you are here just to watch, and not be watched, check in with the staff and we will try to help. We do require that attendees stay at least 3 feet back from any scene. You can still feel the energy of those watching you at this distance. 

Are you an exhibitionist? Does the thought of throngs of people getting off to your scene get you wet? Do you have a fantasy that you want to enact and have an audience watch and cheer? Then this is the party for you.

 Are you a voyeur? Do you get off on watching people play right in front of you? Do you want to peep a scene from around the corner while you get off? Come get your voyeur on!

Circle: Opening Circle at 6:30 is required. We’ll let you know what happens, discuss our party specific rules and norms, give you chances to break the ice and learn what others are looking to do tonight. This is required in addition to the New Member Orientation at 5:00 pm. See the Myself!-specific rules page

What to expect upon arrival

  • All attendees are required to show a valid government-issued ID. If you do not bring your ID or it is expired we cannot admit you.

  • Attendees must show proof of full COVID-19 vaccination. Acceptable vaccination proof would include a CDC vaccine record card, a certificate or QR code from MyIRMobile.com, or an official immunization record from your healthcare provider. Photos or photocopies of these items are also acceptable.

  • As per Washington State's current indoor masking policy, wearing a mask will be required at the party at all times other than when eating/drinking, or when engaged in a scene. If you leave the scene you're in temporarily (e.g. to take a restroom break) please mask up first.

  • Please review our Essential House Rules and share them with your guests.

  • Please arrive in street-legal attire.

  • There is a coat closet on the main floor, and lockers in the basement which can be secured with padlocks (please bring your own padlock if you wish to use one).

  • This is a “yes means yes” space. Please don’t initiate ANY KIND of physical contact with anyone without asking and obtaining a “yes” first.

  • We have people here of all genders and orientations. Do not assume anything about anyone based on how they look or who they are playing with.

What to bring with you

  • Whatever makes you feel sexy and confident. Don’t forget your toy bag!

  • A reusable water bottle for refilling at our water station

  • We invite you to bring your own clean sheets and towels to use, as that helps us keep down our laundry costs.

What we provide

  • Safer sex supplies, cleaning supplies, clean sheets and towels

  • Light snacks for keeping energy up 

Directions and Parking

Gallery Erato is located at 309 1st Ave S. There is a pay parking lot along our north wall. Pioneer Square has free on-street parking after 6pm (more info about street parking here) and paid parking lots, which you can find listed here. This neighborhood is very well served by public transportation, including many bus lines, the streetcar, and the LINK light rail.

Accessibility

  • There is a small lip from the sidewalk into the Gallery.

  • We have a wheelchair ramp that our registration volunteers can put down to transition over this lip so that our main floor will be accessible to folks in wheelchairs. Please let us know when you arrive if you need the ramp.

  • There will be play stations, refreshments, and restrooms on the main floor. Unfortunately, the basement of our space is only accessible via stairs.

  • Restrooms are gender neutral, and can be found on both floors.

  • This is not a scent-free space.

Have more questions? Check out our FAQ! We are a 100% volunteer-run organization, so it helps us immensely if you review the FAQ before emailing us. Thank you!