What: Femmes On Top
Where: Gallery Erato - 309 1st Ave S.
When: 8:00 p.m. - midnight
Cost: $30 (sliding scale available)
*Tickets must be purchased online, there are no door sales*
Are you ready for a party that is so fetch? Femmes On Top is back, and Mean Girls is our January theme! That's right, the hot, popular girls are in charge of this month's party, and they want you to know that on Wednesdays (and on January 19!), we wear pink.
This BDSM-focused party celebrates feminine power in all its forms. We welcome Mistresses, Mxtresses, Dommes, fem Tops, and all their submissives, bottoms, admirers, and followers. For January, we are especially excited to welcome cool moms (not regular moms), hot goth outsiders like Janis, and all mean girls of every type, Regina George-inspired or otherwise. The theme is meant to inspire, not prescribe, so please feel free to come as you are! Wear whatever makes you feel sexy, even if it's just a pair of mouse ears and a tiny black dress like Karen Smith. (She was a mouse, duh!)
Femmes On Top features a social-only hour from 8-9pm on the main floor of the Gallery with an optional icebreaker game for attendees, while play is welcome downstairs all night from 8pm to midnight. A meet-and-greet board and special flagging supplies will be available to help folks mingle and socialize.
This queer-friendly party welcomes attendees of all genders and sexual orientations; trans and gender non-conforming attendees are especially encouraged to attend.
Want to get in touch with the champions for party-specific questions? Email: femmesontop@thecspc.org
Want to come? Get your tickets online?
There will be no tickets available at the door for this event, tickets are only available through pre purchase online. Registration for this party is limited! Click here for information on our refund policy.
Are you a current member of the CSPC?
Note: You must be logged into your CSPC member account to purchase tickets. If you have a previous membership, you can go to this page and use the “Having trouble logging in?” link to reset your access. Having trouble? Email membership@thecspc.org for help regaining access to your account.
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What to expect upon arrival
All attendees are required to show a valid government-issued ID. If you do not bring your ID or it is expired we cannot admit you.
Wearing an N95/KN95 or equivalent mask will be required at the party at all times other than when eating/drinking, or when engaged in a scene. If you leave the scene you're in temporarily (e.g. to take a restroom break) please mask up first.
Guests will need to fill out a guest form and a waiver.
Please review our Essential House Rules and share them with your guests.
Please arrive in street-legal attire.
There is a coat closet on the main floor, and lockers in the basement which can be secured with padlocks (please bring your own padlock if you wish to use one).
This is a “yes means yes” space. Please don’t initiate ANY KIND of physical contact with anyone without asking and obtaining a “yes” first.
We have people here of all genders and orientations. Do not assume anything about anyone based on how they look or who they are playing with.
When voyeuring from social areas please be conscious of how your energy may project into a scene, even from afar. Give the players their space unless you are invited to come watch up close by the participants. If you are asked to move away or look away from a scene please respect the request.
What to bring with you
Whatever makes you feel sexy and confident. Don’t forget your toy bag!
A reusable water bottle for refilling at our water station
We invite you to bring your own clean sheets and towels to use, as that helps us keep down our laundry costs.
What we provide
Safer sex supplies, cleaning supplies, clean sheets and towels
Light snacks for keeping energy up
Directions and Parking
Gallery Erato is located at 309 1st Ave S. There is a pay parking lot along our north wall. Pioneer Square has free on-street parking after 6 p.m. (more info about street parking here) and paid parking lots, which you can find listed here. This neighborhood is very well served by public transportation, including many bus lines, the streetcar, and the LINK light rail.
Accessibility
There is a small lip from the sidewalk into the Gallery.
We have a wheelchair ramp that our registration volunteers can put down to transition over this lip so that our main floor will be accessible to folks in wheelchairs. Please let us know when you arrive if you need the ramp.
There will be play stations, refreshments, and restrooms on the main floor. Unfortunately, the basement of our space is only accessible via stairs.
Restrooms are gender neutral, and can be found on both floors.
This is not a scent-free space.
Have more questions? Check out our FAQ! We are a 100% volunteer-run organization, so it helps us immensely if you review the FAQ before emailing us. Thank you!