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Finding Your Way [online]

Come feel welcome in the open arms of our friendly hosts Tristan and Sam for a discussion about finding your way in the CSPC and sex positive community the first Monday after Fresh Meet from 7 to 9 p.m. Please arrive promptly. The virtual doors will close 10 minutes past the scheduled start time. If you need to arrive late, contact us in advance at findingyourway@thecspc.org. We will do our best to accommodate you.

Moving deeper into the sex positive community can be exciting, overwhelming, or even scary - but you don’t have to do it alone! This is a safe place to discuss and process our experiences at CSPC parties and other events, as well as to connect with others who are actively on a similar journey of sexual and sensual exploration. The goal of this group is to honor the uniqueness of each individual’s path and to provide support and encouragement as you are finding YOUR way into the community.

Each session will begin with a review of our group agreements and the CSPC Online Group rules, followed by the hosts or a guest speaker sharing an experience with the group that surprised them or provided a learning moment. Then we will open the floor for discussion and sharing of attendees' experiences from parties where they learned something new about the community or themselves.

After a short break, we will open the floor for questions about sex positivity in general, about specific interests and kinks, about opportunities for greater engagement with the community, and about the process of developing relationships inside the community. Guided by the hosts, the group will discuss our diverse experiences and perspectives and share related resources. In the case of questions that require additional information or research, the hosts of this peer-led group will update the group later in the week with answers and additional resources.

Participants are encouraged to submit questions ahead of time via the finding YOUR way Discord channel, or by emailing findingyourway@thecspc.org

Discussion of sexual experiences is encouraged, so please be prepared to hear content of explicit nature being discussed. An opportunity to discuss aftercare following the discussion group will also be provided.

 

Host bios: Sam and Tristan

Sam (she/her) is a queer white/indigenous cis woman who joined the CSPC and the sex positive community this year. She has formed many of her connections at the CSPC through her work as a volunteer and recognizes that each person’s journey is unique. Because of this, she is deeply motivated to provide space for people to find connections that feel authentic in the community.

Tristan (he/him) is a queer cis man and an active volunteer who joined the community this year as well. He's passionate about making members feel welcome and helping them find the experiences they want as part of the sex positive community.

 

Have questions? Email the team at findingyourway@thecspc.org or the CSPC Events department at eventsdirector@theCSPC.org for more information.

Registration is open to all. Click the button above to register. The link to participate will be emailed to you shortly after you register. If you haven't received it within an hour of registering or if you have opted out of emails from the CSPC, please contact us at registration@theCSPC.org. Please take a moment to review our event agreements.

Cost

Discussion Groups at the CSPC are free for members and cost $5 if you are not a member.  Membership is $10/month, so if you’re going to two Discussion Groups, your membership is essentially paid for!  To become a member, sign up for a New Member Orientation here!  Any further donations are appreciated and help us keep quality programming coming your way!