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New Member Orientation and Myself! [in-person] July 2024

  • Gallery Erato 309 1st Avenue South Seattle, WA, 98104 United States (map)

What: CSPC New Member Orientation with Myself! Party

Where: Gallery Erato in Pioneer Square, 309 1st Ave S

When-Orientation: 5:00 p.m. sharp (doors open at 4:30. Parking can take some time in this area, and it can take 10-20 minutes to get checked in. Please plan to arrive well in advance of the orientation start time so that you aren’t turned away.)

When-Party: Mandatory party circle at 6:30, party from 7 to 10 p.m.

Cost: $40 (sliding scale available) - Government ID required for entry, masks are strongly encouraged.

Would you like to come to Myself! but are not yet a member of the CSPC?

Note: No tickets will be available at the door, you must register online to attend. Registration for this party is limited to a maximum of 140 tickets (including new members). Click here for information on our refund policy.

Welcome to the Center for Sex Positive Culture

The Center for Sex Positive Culture creates spaces to celebrate, develop, and explore sexuality and sensuality among a diverse, supportive community.

What We Do

The Center for Sex Positive Culture encourages the exploration and celebration of the many facets of human sexuality. Through an encompassing variety of events, created by and for its membership, the CSPC seeks to educate, to facilitate consensual open sexual expression and dialogue, and to provide a venue for fellowship and community. As proponents of sex positive culture, we believe that the appropriate uses of sex extend beyond reproduction. They include creating personal pleasure, bonding interpersonal relationships, promoting spiritual growth, and enhancing emotional and physical health. In a sex positive world, everyone has the freedom and resources to pursue a fulfilling and empowering sex life.

Becoming a Member

Want to become a member of the CSPC? All members must attend a new member orientation to be able to sign up for a membership. Orientations are mostly held in the hour prior to our scheduled events, as this one is. This will go over what to expect, the etiquette, and what you can do to be successful at our party and in this community.  Space is limited and you must register in advance through our website. Signing up for our newsletter is the best way to stay informed about announcements regarding upcoming events and orientations.

Starting in January, memberships are $100/year or can also be paid monthly ($10/month or $8.33/mo with auto-pay). Once you attend a new member orientation and purchase a membership you can manage your membership dues through our membership portal.  

Read the New Member Packet Here.

AND the party-------------------Myself!

The energy is intense at Myself! and while it is a dream come true for many, it can be overwhelming. We are really glad you are interested and we think you will have a great time. Remember to vote with your feet and if you are overwhelmed by what you are seeing, walk somewhere else. We will have staff available to chat. 

You must be willing and able to say yes or no to ride this ride. Please know your boundaries and be able to communicate them.

About the Event:

The party name is Myself! to emphasize the personal nature of this party. What gets you excited? Stripping, Lap Dancing, gang bangs, bukkake, dirty talk, just watching, chatting with people, group sex, hitachi, watching porn? Come do it at Myself!

Myself! is a wonderful sex friendly masturbation party that’s about consent, perverted ideas and watching. Opening Circle at 6:30 is required for everyone. The Gallery boasts floor space for lots of equipment, including racks, spanking benches, and mattresses, all situated against a backdrop of exposed brick and beams. There are no showers.  

Who it's for:

We have sex, masturbation, gang-bangs, pegging, dancing, spanking and fantasies coming true. If that interests you and you are over 18, this is the party for you.

Watching is an inherent part of the party, this is a great place to show off and be seen. If you are here just to watch, and not be watched, check in with the staff and we will try to help. We do require that attendees stay at least 3 feet back from any scene. You can still feel the energy of those watching you at this distance. 

Are you an exhibitionist? Does the thought of throngs of people getting off to your scene get you wet? Do you have a fantasy that you want to enact and have an audience watch and cheer? Then this is the party for you.

 Are you a voyeur? Do you get off on watching people play right in front of you? Do you want to peep a scene from around the corner while you get off? Come get your voyeur on!

Circle: Opening Circle at 6:30 is required. We’ll let you know what happens, discuss our party specific rules and norms, give you chances to break the ice and learn what others are looking to do tonight. This is required in addition to the New Member Orientation at 5:00 p.m. See the Myself!-specific rules page

What is included with this ticket?

  • New Member Orientation

  • A one-month CSPC membership

  • A ticket to Myself!

How to prepare for this event:

 

What to expect upon arrival:

  • All tickets are sold online, there will be no tickets sold at the door.

  • No late arrivals! Doors open for New Member Orientation open 15 minutes prior to start time. Doors close for new member orientation 10 minutes after start time. If you are not inside the doors before they close you will not be admitted into the orientation.

  • Please arrive in street legal attire.

  • All attendees will need to show a valid government-issued ID to be checked-in. If you do not bring your ID or if it is expired we cannot admit you.

  • Please Note: Beginning February 01 2024 the CSPC will be updating our masking policy from KN95 or equivalent masks from being mandatory at every event to being optional at events. Please follow this link in order to read our full official statement regarding the change in our masking policy. 

  • There is a coat closet on the main floor and lockers in the basement which can be secured with padlocks (please bring your own padlock if you wish to use one).

What we provide:

  • Safer sex supplies, cleaning supplies, clean sheets and towels

  • Light snacks for keeping energy up

 

What to bring with you:

  • Your valid legal ID and a mask

  • Whatever makes you feel sexy! Especially special attire and your toy bag

  • A reusable water bottle to fill up at our water station

  • We invite you to bring your own sheets and towels to use, as that helps us keep down our laundry costs


No Obligation! Your registration pays for your ticket to the party and a one-month membership, but if you decide that you do not want to become a member of the CSPC and therefore not attend the party we will absolutely refund your money. Just let the registration volunteer know you’d like a refund on your way out the door and email membership@thecspc.org

  

Directions and Parking:

  • Gallery Erato is located at 309 1st Ave S. in Pioneer Square. There is a pay parking lot along our north wall. Less expensive options are available a few blocks away.

  • Street parking is free after 6 p.m. (more info about street parking here) and paid parking lots, which you can find listed here

  • This neighborhood is very well served by public transportation, including many bus lines, the streetcar, and the Pioneer Square LINK light rail station which is two blocks to the east. 

 

Accessibility:

  • There is a small lip from the brick sidewalk into the Gallery. We have a wheelchair ramp to transition over this lip so that the main floor of our space is accessible to folks in wheelchairs. Please let us know when you arrive if you need the ramp. 

  • There is play space, refreshments, and restrooms on the main floor.

  • Unfortunately, the basement, which has additional play space and restrooms, is only accessible by stairs. 

  • Restrooms are gender neutral, and can be found on both floors.

  • This is not a scent-free space.


Have more questions? Check out our FAQ! We are a 100% volunteer-run organization, so it helps us immensely if you check the FAQ before emailing us. Thank you!