Hump History Year Five: The Fifth to Mention

by Teeebone

In 2012, the Hump was entering its fifth year of operation. The party had become a routine weekly event that new members often attended as their first CSPC party, creating a great first impression of the sex-positive community in general.

But along with the ever-lengthening track record, there was the week-to-week task of keeping the party fully staffed. Most of the original crew had left for personal or professional reasons by this time because “life happens,” and we were challenged to keep the party volunteer positions filled. Thanks to our volunteer training program, our successive waves of volunteers who stepped in to take over these open slots were just as effective as the original crew. With the official curtailment of impact play at the Hump enacted during the previous summer, changes in staff, and a desire to pursue other projects within the CSPC, one of the founders of the Hump decided to head out to become a host of another party and put together a new quarterly party as well. They announced their departure in early July, and after that I found myself handling even more responsibilities than before. Learning how to manage, delegate, and communicate effectively became crucial.

In August, a number of new innovations were introduced to the Volunteer Corps, including an EC Report Template that made for better and more detailed EC Reports. I put together a schedule template that helped make organizing the weekly Hump volunteer roster much easier. The volunteer training program continued to expand to help with the ongoing demand for staff for other parties and events, because at this point there was something happening almost every day at the CSPC. By the end of the year, I was handling the volunteer roster scheduling of the Hump Team as well as being the EC, Host, Champion, and sometimes the DJ.

In December there were two unique, one-of-a-kind scenes that took place at the Hump, a week apart from each other. One involved a suspension that was done very gracefully–with the female rope bottom covered in gold glitter. Many people gathered around to watch it happen. Clean up, however, took about two hours! The other scene was a "Harem Experience" which involved some advanced planning and a few extras thrown in for good measure:one guy, four gals (or was it six?) and appropriate music to convey the atmosphere... This was one of the most involved scenes I had ever helped put together, and I still love helping folx bring their fantasies to life. Though these scenes were a lot of work to help plan and support, both of them were great reminders for me of just how much fun it was to be running the Hump.

Until next time… :^)

**Want to be part of a volunteer team that makes the hotness happen? Or help out with all the behind-the-scenes work of the CSPC organization? Begin the process by completing the online volunteer orientation and volunteer application form here! We are created and run by members, for members, and we need YOU!

Sneak Peek at What's Next: Bloom Community!

Want a sneak peek of what's coming up in Seattle's sex positive scene?

To help our beautiful sex positive community to connect with each other throughout the Seattle area, we’re collaborating with Bloom Community.

Bloom is a sex positive social, dating, and community app with a strong consent culture that helps people meet around events. This means you can:

  • See a full docket of Seattle sex positive events

  • Scope who’s going to the same events you’re going to

  • Make new friends & more

  • Enjoy life amidst community, like it was meant to be!

We will be sharing this connection tool with local Seattle sex positive community organizers, but we'd love to see your events too! Create an event here and make sure to specify that it's part of "Seattle Community Events" under "Add event to." You can also follow the CSPC on Bloom by following these steps: 

  1. Download Bloom Community with referral code the-center-for-sex-positive-culture

  2. Sign up for any of our upcoming events

  3. the people on the list who you want to chat with. When the is mutual, you'll be notified and can chat via the app

  4. Check back to see who joins after you!

We’ll be adding more CSPC events to this platform soon! Check out the bounty our local Seattle sex positive community is offering at https://www.joinbloom.community/seattle-events. We can’t wait to meet you!

The Return of Kinky Camping -- Come Frolic With Us!

Update - check out our presenter bios and class descriptions!

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Update - check out our presenter bios and class descriptions! 🔥

We’re all abuzz and atwitter with excitement for the upcoming Frolic camping events! This year we’re having two weekends, each with food provided! You deserve a kinky, fun, relaxing summer vacation with friends. Come play with us in the clean outdoor air and sleep under the stars.

And for the next level in glamping, be sure to put in a bid for our indoor VIP rooms (separate auctions exist for the July and the August weekends). The two highest bidders for each weekend will win a room for the whole weekend, with access to an indoor bathroom and shower, for themselves and a plus one!

To give you a taste of the entertainment and educational offerings in store, here’s a tentative list of what will be going on during these events. Be sure to reserve your ticket so you don’t miss out on the fun!

2022 Frolic Week 1 (July 22-24)

Theme: Know Yourself: Needs, Wants, Cravings

Friday

10 am Property open

3 pm Education/skillshare

Needles 101 - Hawk

Sexy Communication - Eirikah 

6 pm Dinner

7:30 pm Opening Circle

8:30 pm Campfire (Cigar & Cigar Play)

8:30 pm Surprise Class! Intro to Fire Play - Temptr

11 pm Quiet Hours

Saturday

8 am Quiet Hours end - Yoga/ Meditation

10 am Education/skillshares

Finding pleasure and intimacy in an uncomfortable body - Jadzia

Boundaries - Eirikah

11 am Brunch

1 pm Education/skillshares

Playing with Disabilities- Turtle

Rope Share - Hawk

4 pm Group Activities - outdoor games, Lube slip-n-slide

6 pm Dinner

7 pm Talent Show and the Dating Game 

8 pm Campfire

11 pm Quiet Hours

Sunday

8 am Quiet Hours end - Yoga/ Meditation

10 am Education/skillshares

Dessert Top - Teeebone

Preparing to Scene for the bottom/sub- Turtle

11 am Brunch

2 pm Closing Circle

4 pm Clean Up


2022 Frolic Week 2 (August 3-5)

Theme: Know the Game: Mind, Body, Energy

Friday

10 am Property open

3 pm Education/skillshares      

Skin and all the ways you can play with it - Turtle

The 3-Minute Game - Skitty

6 pm Dinner

7:30 pm Opening Circle

8:30 pm Campfire (Cigar & Cigar Play)

11 pm Quiet Hours

Saturday

8 am Quiet Hours end - Yoga/ Meditation

10 am Education/skillshares     

Needles that Hurt - Hawk       

Fuck Gender - Mac

11 am Brunch

1 pm Education/skillshares

D/s Power Dynamics 101 - Kelly

Sensual Chi Energy - Mac

4 pm Group Activity - Kinky Carnival! Featuring:

Mac McGregor ~ Positive Masculinity Circle

Eirikah Delaunay ~ Romance Tarot

Skitty ~ Speed Consentacles

TK Kasnick ~ Tarot Readings

Kelly MacCallister ~ Spin the Bottle Truth or Dare

Temptr ~ Electrical Tingle Tastings

Outdoor Games

And more to come…

6 pm Dinner

7 pm Surprise Entertainment!

8 pm Campfire

11 pm Quiet Hours

Sunday

8 am Quiet Hours end - Yoga/ Meditation

10 am Education/skillshares

Stomping - Hawk

Impact Topping - Jadzia

11 am Brunch

2 pm Closing Circle

4 pm Clean Up

Fly Your Freak Flag at PPMT!

Let Your Freak Flag Fly!

Your incredible Power Play Mixed-Tape Crew brings you…

Saturday, July 9th

A Night of Guilty Pleasures 

with the Cheesiest Hits We Can Find!

Bring: your FLAG & we will put it up with zip ties! 

Tell Us: what your cheesiest guilty pleasure songs are on Discord!

Win a Prize: if you hear the song of the hour & get to the DJ station first!

Email special scene requests and song thoughts to ppmt@thecspc.org

At PPMT, we want to take special care of your scene space, give you room for your toys, and set you up to take your scene to a higher level. If you have any questions or concerns, please speak immediately with staff so we may work to create the best possible experience for everyone!

Power Play Mixed-Tape Rocks Sensuality and BDSM under the same roof!

Power Play Mixed-Tape makes having a fantastic fucking time easy. Dress to impress and surround yourself with sensual sex and bass-pounding BDSM. Best yet - The music will be HOT - throbbing Top 40 7-9:30 with DJ Ren1 and sizzling Rock mash-ups by The Bone Man 9:30-12 a.m.! Plan to shake it like you gotta make it!

Come Beat, Flirt, Needle, Bleed, Cut, Hang, Tie, Eat, Lick, Grab, Bite, Kiss, Fuck, Cum and maybe much more with someone new, someone old, something cool, something bold! Spin on the dance floor or be suspended from one of our hard points. Make someone sizzle on the rack or bend them over a spanking bench. Any play sanctioned by the CSPC is allowed at PPMT so review CSPC's Essential House Rules. Expect sex anywhere and everywhere except the bathroom and Aftercare room! If it's going to be bloody, bring your own plastic/tarp and linens. No solo masturbation unless scene participants and Event Coordinators give permission, please.

Want to come? It’s not too late to join the party! Purchase your tickets online here! 

Not yet a member? Purchase a new member ticket that includes orientation, your first month of membership, plus entry to the hottest party around!

Tickets are only available through online purchase; we do not sell tickets at the door. Registration for this party is limited to a maximum of 120 tickets. 

Bask in the July Hotness of Femme Dominion!

Join us for Femme Dominion, a BDSM play party for Femme identified Tops and all the people who adore them. Get your kink on and get in some socializing with like-minded pervs in a Queer centered space. Bask in the many glorious forms that Femme can take, especially when it takes charge.

Play equipment and places to get intimate abound with seating scattered throughout the space to optimize the sweet voyeur/exhibitionist dynamic of public play. If last month is any indication, expect a wide variety of sensual, sexual, and solidly S/M scenes all night long.

We’ll start each evening with a social hour to help you climatize into our erotic world and enjoy some slightly less distracted interactions. We’ll also have name tags and red wrist bands for flagging to ease introductions and help those folks interested in pick-up play find each other.

This is a Queer centered, but not exclusionary, party focused on Femme Dommes and all the lovely people who appreciate our particular attentions as well as those who simply prefer Femme led spaces. We embrace Femme in its many varied manifestations inclusive of, but not exclusive to, gender identity.

Come explore ours or your own.

Get your tickets here! Not yet a member? Get a New Member ticket here–includes orientation, your first month’s membership, and entry to the party!

There will be no tickets available at the door for this event, tickets are only available through pre purchase online. Registration for this party is limited to a maximum of 120 tickets and we have sold out in advance of every one of our events so far so please plan accordingly. We are always looking for reliable volunteers to help with setting/cleaning up as well as registration and monitoring. If you are able to help in these capacity please reach out.

Consent Corner 2.16

by Emma Atkinson and Rachel Drake

Hello lovely readers!  Whew, wasn’t June Pride-tastic?  We’re still basking in the glow of celebrating with several thousand or so of our kindred spirits.  We hope it was amazing for you as well. 

July 4th, “Independence Day,” was a few days ago, which is a complex and difficult holiday for many people, especially those whose personal autonomy is not recognized in this country. Thinking about this inspired us to make a modest proposal. How about if on the other 364 days we celebrate Interdependence Day?  

Interdependence is the concept that two or more people, species, or things are mutually reliant  on each other. We’re all connected to each other in so many ways! It seems only prudent to remember and celebrate these connections and work extra hard to uphold personal autonomy when and where we can. Autonomy is the right to decide what happens with your own mind, body, spirit, and experience. If you know someone is struggling with recent events, ask them how you can best support them and their sense of personal autonomy. Having a discussion to update a relationship framework and consent agreements can be very empowering and an unexpected gift.

We have a whimsical illustration for this idea. Alice in Wonderland’s friends Mad Hatter and March Hare sang an Unbirthday song to her. They helped her understand that her Unbirthday is any day other than the day of her birth. Unbirthday presents can be given on those days and they can bring unexpected delight to the giver and the recipient. Who doesn’t like an unexpected delight?   

So, Happy Interdependence Day from our Corner to you! We’ve got boatloads of delight ahead for you as we celebrate our interdependence and talk more about autonomy in upcoming editions.  

Homework:  How will you or have you celebrated Interdependence Day? Please share your thoughts with us at:  info@thecspc.org.  

“Be excellent to each other” - Bill and Ted

“Be sexcellent to each other” - Emma and Rachel

Instant Party (Just Add Volunteers!)--The Origins of The Luv Shack / OMG SX!

by Teeebone

In mid-December of 2010, a mass email went out to the CSPC Volunteers calling for Party Champions and Event Coordinators for three new parties beginning in January. One party had already been approved, but two other parties needed to be created from scratch. The details for these new parties were as follows: A third Friday Main Space party, 8PM start time, something like the Hump or Erotic City, and a fifth Friday party to be held in both the Main Space and the Annex / RAW Dungeon, scheduled to start in April and be held as a quarterly event. The Office stated they were open to suggestions and ideas, providing a chance for anybody to create the new party that they had always wanted.

After reading the email, I felt inspired. Erotic City had been canceled in the summer of 2008, and the time was right to add a new sex-focused party on a Friday night. The email exchange was fast and furious:

“I'm throwing my hat into the ring for the proposed third Friday sex-focused party. Erotic City shall rise again, with a few tweaks and updates. But I can't do it alone, LOL.”

The internet brainstorm session continued for a couple of days, and within less than a month we had a crew put together and a cool name for the new party: The Luv Shack! I had learned a lot from my years of running the Hump on how to build a team, put out publicity, and organize a work schedule, but one other vital component that helped pull things together was being a known quantity at the CSPC. I had reached that level where folks wanted to join my team.. is a magical thing when that happens, and I’m grateful that it did. Some of the people who stepped up used to volunteer with Erotic City back in the day, and they were glad to see a new party taking its place.

In setup and organization, the party was very similar to the Hump, though instead of a two-hour social followed by a four-hour party, it was just a six-hour party. There was a social area with snacks, a cuddle/romp pile, the dance floor, an exhibitionist area, and of course the Back Room for those who wanted some privacy. On January 21st, 2011, The Luv Shack debuted with an attendance of 94 folks plus staff. Afterwards, the rave reviews came pouring in:

"Well, the Luv Shack debut was... AWESOME! Thanks to Teeebone and everyone whose hard work went into making it happen! The initial showing of more than 90 folks was fantastic! I hope that you were there checking it out. And if you are not, be sure to stop by next month!”

These are the kind of reviews an Event Coordinator or Party Champion strives for. Luv Shack continued rolling on until September of 2012, when it was rebranded as OMG SX! The crew had gotten the sense that the party needed some new energy, so we changed things up by adding a cafe theme to the social area, a change in DJs, a dark couch corner, and a dedicated massage station.

I continued working as EC/Champion of OMG SX! until January 2015. After four years, I passed the mike over to somebody else who ran the party until the CSPC closed shop in September of 2016. They kept the energy going by introducing some new innovations like the Venus Suite and the Legendary Fuck Tent, and they were also able to bring in the younger members of the CSPC membership into the party.

All in all, I consider Luv Shack / OMG SX! to be an excellent example of a successful, long-running party. Thanks to everybody, both volunteers and attendees, who helped make it happen!

Until next time... :^)

Interested in starting a party of your own? 

The first step is becoming a volunteer! Begin this process by completing the online volunteer orientation and volunteer application form here! 

Next, share your great idea with the CSPC’s Events Director at EventsDirector@theCSPC.org to get your party started!

Research Survey Opportunity--Race & Kink

Are you a kinky person of color? You may be eligible to participate in a CARAS-endorsed anonymous online survey about your experiences! We are currently looking for more survey participants to better understand racialized experiences and perspectives within the kinky community. 

This research will amplify and center the voices of kinky people of color, and results may benefit the larger community. Ms. Mina Beveney (mlbeveney@widener.edu), a doctoral candidate at the Center for Positive Sexuality and Black psychotherapist , is seeking participants for a 20- to 30-minute survey that will ask about experiences of racial or ethnic discrimination, sexual self-concept, and coping.

If you are a person of color age 18 or over that has participated in in-person BDSM spaces or contexts in the United States within the past 24 months, please follow this link (https://rebrand.ly/RaceKinkSurvey) to find out more and participate. Participants may choose to enter into a drawing to win one of four $25 gift cards.

Thank you for your interest in this research!

CSPC Volunteer Social--In-Person This Saturday, 6/18!

The President and HR Director would like to invite you to an afternoon and evening of fun at Skitty's home in Woodinville, between 4 and 10 p.m. on Saturday, June 18. Feel free to bring a guest, lounge outside in the sun or shade, play games on the grass, bring your favorite tabletop game, and sit around the fire table roasting s'mores and singing songs.

We'll have pop, juice, and water, and we'll be serving hamburgers, veggie burgers, and hot dogs. We encourage you to sign up to bring something to share at the potluck.

All past, present, and future volunteers are welcome. If you are new to volunteering, fear not. You do not need to have worked a volunteer shift, but you do need to have an active Volgistics account. See our Volunteering web page (https://thecspc.org/volunteering) for the simple steps to become a volunteer. Outdoors, masks are optional. Indoors masks are optional with a negative same-day rapid COVID test or PCR test within 48 hours.

After you register, you will receive a confirmation email with a link to sign up for the potluck (optional) and the address. Carpooling can be arranged on Discord or through the Volunteer Google Group. If you plan on arriving by bus, arrangements can be made to pick you up from the Woodinville Park & Ride. If you have any questions, please contact Skitty at skittycspc@gmail.com

Check our website at https://thecspc.org/events/2022/06/18/volunteer-social to register.