So You Want to Be a Board Member?

By Skitty

Fantastic! The Center for Sex Positive Culture needs you. You are the Center. The Board is always looking for folx who want to step up, take on more responsibility, and help chart a path forward for this organization that we all love so passionately. To assist with getting you more involved, here are some things you should know.

Why does the CSPC have a Board of Directors?

The Center for Sex Positive Culture is a 501(c)(7) nonprofit, operated in a manner consistent with maintaining that tax-exempt status. We are a membership-based community center for the benefit of sex-positive culture, focusing on Seattle and the surrounding areas. Here is our mission statement:

  • The Center for Sex Positive Culture creates spaces to celebrate, develop, and explore sexuality and sensuality among a diverse, supportive community.

We are required to have a working Board of Directors, including the Executive Offices of President, Vice President, Secretary, and Treasurer, with a minimum of seven Directors. We may also have up to two Community Directors (chosen by Membership).

What do individual Board Members do?

  • Board members typically volunteer between 10 and 40 hours per week, on top of attending events and any other volunteer roles they take on (such as EC, Champion, Online Host, etc.). 

  • Basic duties include:

    • participating in weekly Board video calls

    • preparing for, and attendance at, the monthly Board Meeting

    • engaging in a yearly Board Retreat (intensive, day-long work meeting)

    • serving on committees and disappearing task forces (DTFs)(e.g., building committee, document creation/revision DTF)

    • managing special initiatives

    • participating in fundraising by volunteering as staff, donating or procuring items, or making financial contributions

    • directing recurring seasonal events (e.g., CSPC Pride, the Frolic)

    • attending/leading one-on-one and small group meetings

    • answering emails — so many emails!

    • writing reports, creating documents, compiling spreadsheets

    • monitoring CSPC social media, engaging when necessary, and keeping a professional tone and attitude

    • liaising with other organizations and individuals sharing a similar or related mission

  • Executive Officers (President, Vice President, Secretary, Treasurer) and Division Directors (Events, HR, Operations, and Communications) all handle a ton more responsibilities related to their role, contributing many additional volunteer hours per week.

  • All Board Members are expected to take on an initiative of their choosing, or a Directorship, or an Executive Office, after a few months of settling in and getting a feel for the basic responsibilities of being a Board Member.

What qualifications does a person need in order to be a Board Member?

There is a lot of flexibility with respect to the qualifications required to be a Board Member. This is on purpose — to help remove barriers and promote diversity in leadership. That said, a few things are necessary.

All Board Members must be willing to:

  • consistently devote productive time to the CSPC

  • maintain communication with the other Directors

  • serve the three-year term for which they have been elected

  • allow their full legal name to be made available in public record

  • provide their current address, phone numbers, and email address to the Board

  • fill out a conflict of interest form, understand the implications of their personal, financial, and other volunteer relationships, and be willing to answer questions about those relationships

  • maintain an active CSPC membership

  • execute the documentation required for membership and Board participation

Recommended qualifications:

  • minimum one year of active CSPC membership

  • extensive volunteer experience within the CSPC, including leadership positions (demonstrates characteristics required for successful Board participation)

  • periodic attendance at Board Meetings (demonstrates an interest in, and understanding of, the workings of the CSPC)

  • work experience relevant to the role of Board Member

  • volunteer experience outside of the CSPC

  • education, apprenticeships, certifications (in whatever — all of these really do count!)

  • life experience and the ability to demonstrate how that is applicable

What are the characteristics of a successful Board Member?

The CSPC is a diverse community and so are Board Members. That said, there are a number of characteristics needed to be successful and effective:

  • consistently demonstrate a solid understanding and application of consent culture, commitment to consent culture, and a willingness to engage in ongoing consent education

  • demonstrate an impeccable practice of confidentiality

  • behave with emotional intelligence

  • when applicable, disagree productively in the appropriate venue

  • ability to collaborate and communicate electronically or have a willingness to learn how to use Proton, Google Drive, docs, spreadsheets, forms, etc.

  • consistently represent the organization, adhering to the mission statement and House Rules

  • think and act independently

  • be highly motivated

  • be reliable

  • be dependable

  • follow through on commitments, responsibilities, and projects

What else do I need to know before applying?

Volunteering as a Board Member is an enormous responsibility. It is not for the faint of heart. You will be a public-facing representative of the organization, both within our events, and outside of the community. Much of your work will go unrecognized and will often be criticized. There will be much you cannot speak about publicly — ever. It will change the way you interact with the rest of the community. Some of the things you can do as a regular Member, you cannot do as a Board Member. For your entire term, and quite a while after that, everything you do or say will be interpreted (rightly or wrongly) as coming from “the Board.” It is, at times, exhausting.

All that said, being a Board Member is an honor and a privilege. It is an opportunity to connect with membership in a unique way, and provides a profound opportunity to shape and change the organization. It is an act of service that will forever change you and the way you view this beloved community.

What is the application process?

  • Reread the above information and consider whether this is the right time for you to put your name forward. We will always need new Board Members — next month, next year, next decade… There is no rush. 

  • Engage with current and/or past Board Members, asking them about their experiences and any questions you may have.

  • Fill out the Google Form.

  • Include some sort of résumé. This can be along the lines of a customary business résumé or some other format that provides information as to your skills and experience relevant to the work of a Board Member. If this, or any aspect of the application process is preventing you from putting your name forward for consideration, please let us know. Assistance can be provided or accommodations made.

  • Demonstrate your ability to represent the community in a respectful, informed, and civil manner. This includes the ways you interact with others at CSPC events, on social media, and in the surrounding sex-positive community.

  • Demonstrate your ability to lead by becoming more involved: 

    • If you haven’t already, volunteer to take on other leadership positions within the CSPC. If you are not sure how, ask someone in leadership, preferably in the area that interests you the most.

    • Check out our monthly Board Meetings and if applicable, participate during the attendee comments period. Get to know the inner workings of the organization, the Board Members, and help us get to know you and your vision of the CSPC.

What if this isn’t the right fit? How do I make a meaningful contribution to the organization?

Not everyone is best suited for the role of Board Member. Not everyone wants to serve on the Board. That doesn’t mean you can’t contribute to the CSPC in a substantial, meaningful, and enriching way. The CSPC needs volunteers in every capacity. If you see a need, bring forward your ideas of how you can make changes in the community.

Approach this as you would when considering a new play partner. Think about what you have to offer, what attracts you to the other person, what kind of play you are interested in, and then negotiate a scene or a relationship that can be enjoyable and fulfilling for both of you. As with play, you may not end up with the scene you first envisioned, but hopefully something even better!

Please direct questions and feedback arising from this article to: president@thecspc.org

Community Call for Volunteers - Any Architects?

As many, but not all, of our community members may be aware, we rent the space where we host our in-person parties. Gallery Erato is a lovely space, but the CSPC once upon a time had our own building, and we hope to have one again!

In the continued search for a new building, we're wondering if there might be an architect within our community who would be interested in assisting with this process. If so, please contact Larry by sending an email to facilitiescoordinator@thecspc.org.

New Volunteer Position

Tabling and Vending Coordinator

The Center for Sex Positive Culture welcomes everyone and encourages our members who identify as BIPOC or LGBTQ/SGL to apply for this volunteer position.

Summary:

Coordinate tabling and vending at Center for Sex Positive Culture events by CSPC members or local sex positive organizations. Assist in the development and launch of this new program. This position reports to the Events Director and can be expanded over time.

Responsibilities:

  • Work with the Events, Communications, and HR Directors to develop and launch the tabling and vending program

  • Ensure alignment with the CSPC’s mission and adherence to our policies

  • Coordinate promotions with the Communications Director

  • Answer emails from those interested in tabling or vending

  • Coordinate scheduling with Event Champions

  • Communicate with the Events Director to ensure that the program adds to the overall event experience and resolve issues as they arise

  • Maintain an up-to-date spreadsheet of possible organizations, businesses, and individuals, as well as those scheduled

  • Communicate what products and services are suitable and keep track of what has been offered

  • Meet with Directors, organizations, businesses, and individuals as needed

  • Provide reports to the Events Director as agreed upon by the two of you

Qualifications:

  • Active membership and volunteer status with the CSPC

  • Basic understanding of Google Docs/Sheets/Forms and Google Drive and a willingness to use these tools

  • Attendance at CSPC events on a regular basis (several per month)

  • Track record of working well in collaboration with others

  • Professional attitude

  • Willingness to make a long-term commitment to develop and run this program

Note:

The Tabling and Vending Coordinator is not eligible to table or vend at CSPC events. A conflict of interest form must be signed and kept up to date. Potential conflicts of interest must be discussed with the Events Director or HR Director (e.g., if a partner, housemate, employer, etc., wants to table or vend, the decision will be made by a Director).

Contact:

Email volunteerliaison@thecspc.org to apply for this volunteer position.

The Center for Sex Positive Culture creates spaces to celebrate, develop, and explore sexuality and sensuality among a diverse, supportive community.

Consent Advocacy Training for Volunteers

We are excited to announce a new training opportunity! As part of our ongoing work to update and expand our consent policy and practice, we have partnered with Consent Academy to create an exclusive Consent Advocacy workshop, just for CSPC volunteers!

This two-part, six-hour course will cover:

  • The expectations and basics of the Consent Advocate role

  • Communication and active listening skills

  • Working with trauma and people caught in acute trauma reactions

  • Consent-Focused Psychological First Aid

  • Bystander intervention and de-escalation skills

  • Supporting those involved in a consent incident

Yours to keep:

  • Consent Advocate handout and presentation slides

This workshop is intended for those currently volunteering in one or more of the following capacities: Event Coordinator, Monitor, Event Host or Champion, Orientation Leader, DG Host, Tech Host, Team Captain, Discord Mod, Tasting Top, or Board Member. It is a requirement for volunteers who wish to become part of the upcoming Consent Advocate Team. Click here for more information on becoming a Consent Advocate.

This workshop is being offered at a reduced rate. For the same price as attending a CSPC event, ($25-35), this workshop offers information and skills applicable in everyday life, opens the door to enriching volunteer opportunities, and entitles you to add this Consent Academy training to your résumé. There will be a limited number of scholarships available.

Who: active volunteers (max. 35 participants)

What: six-hour workshop

When: Saturday November 11th and 18th, 1-4pm (this is a two-part workshop)

Where: online

Why: to be considered for the Consent Advocate Team and/or to expand your understanding and ability to create and maintain consent culture within our community

How: registration information coming soon

If you have questions or are unavailable on these dates, contact Skitty at HRdirector@thecspc.org. The next opportunity for this training will be in early 2024.

CSPC Communications Team Volunteering

As our organization and local community continues to grow, so does our Communications Team. We are looking for additional volunteers to assist in maintaining our social media presence! See below for volunteer descriptions and information on how to apply.

Social Media CoordinatorS

Responsibilities:

  • Lead the Social Media Volunteers and present department reports to Communications Director at the Communications Team meeting

  • Monitor the CSPC social media platforms (Facebook, FetLife, Instagram) on a daily basis in tandem with the Communications Director; reply to comments, questions, and messages

  • Work with Social Media Volunteers to create unique content on a regular basis using the images and text copy provided or create your own images and adapt text from other CSPC sources to promote the mission of the CSPC, attract followers, and engage with our community

  • Use the social media platforms to connect with organizations and individuals who align with our mission

  • Regularly attend online Communications Team meetings (currently 6-7pm PDT every second Monday)

Qualifications:

  • Active membership with the CSPC

  • Completed volunteer orientation (can be done at the start of volunteering)

  • Familiarity with navigating Facebook, FetLife, and Instagram

  • Comfortable having your social media account associated with the CSPC

  • Willingness to engage with others on social media

  • Competence using an image editor of your choosing (Gimp, Photoshop, etc.)

Social Media Volunteers

Responsibilities:

  • Scroll through the CSPC posts and news feeds on a regular basis

  • Report any unusual, inflammatory, or discriminatory posts or comments to a Social Media Coordinator

  • Report incorrect information including dates, times, or invalid links to a Social Media Coordinator

  • Engage with our posts, as you are comfortable, by liking or commenting

  • Create and submit sex-positive and kink-friendly content that complies with the specific platform’s Community Guidelines to a Social Media Coordinator

  • Suggest new ways the CSPC can interact with the community through social media

  • Optional - Regularly attend online Communications Team meetings (currently 6-7pm PDT every second Monday)

Qualifications:

  • Be an active member of the CSPC

  • Have completed the volunteer orientation

  • Actively browse social media on a regular basis

  • Comfortable having your social media account associated with the CSPC

Contact: Email communicationsdirector@thecspc.org to apply for a volunteer position.

Disappearing Task Force for Improving Transparency Around the CSPC’s Incident Reporting Process

Call for volunteers! Are you interested in helping increase transparency around the CSPC’s incident reporting process? Do you have questions about the process or suggestions for how to make improvements? Here’s your opportunity to make meaningful change. Join HR Director and Conflict Resolution Coordinator, Skitty, as part of a disappearing task force for improving transparency around the CSPC’s incident reporting process.


The task force will begin in October and consist of six meetings. Participants will include members and volunteers. At the first meeting, we will determine the overall scope of the task force, along with the basic agenda for each of the remaining meetings, and schedule the remaining meetings according to majority availability. Any interested CSPC members are welcome to participate and will be asked to make a commitment to the entire process. If you need to miss a meeting, that's understandable, but the process works best if everyone is invested in doing the work. The recommendations we make will, for the most part, be implemented by us! Some of those recommendations will actually be implemented as we go along, while others will take more time and occur after the task force has wrapped up. The task force recommendations will be shared with the entire community at the December 13 Board Meeting, as well as in the newsletter, on Discord, and the CSPC’s other social media platforms. The Board is committed to supporting this task force and its recommendations, and several Board Members plan to participate throughout the process. Here is a breakdown of the preliminary details:


Who can participate?

  • Any interested CSPC members and volunteers

  • The task force will be led by Skitty (HR Director and Conflict Resolution Coordinator)

What is this?

  • A six-week, online working group of volunteers asking questions, proposing solutions, writing policy, and implementing strategies

When will it take place?

  • Once a week, for two hours, beginning in the first week of October and continuing through the second week of November. See the possible dates listed below.

Where will we meet?

  • Online on Zoom

How do I sign up or find out more?

  • Email Skitty at HRdirector@thecspc.org to indicate your interest. Please feel free to include any initial questions, concerns, and ideas you want to share. Take a look at the possible dates listed below and indicate your expected availability/unavailability in your email:


Meeting One:

  • Sun Oct 1st, time TBD

  • Mon Oct 2nd, 7-9pm

  • Wed Oct 4th, 7-9pm

Meeting Two:

  • Thur Oct 12th, 7-9pm

Meeting Three:

  • Mon Oct 16th, 7-9pm

  • Wed Oct 18th, 7-9pm

Meeting Four:

  • Mon Oct 23rd, 7-9pm

  • Sun Oct 29th, time TBD

Meeting Five:

  • Wed Nov 1st, 7-9pm

Meeting Six:

  • Thur Nov 9th, 7-9pm

Make-Up Meeting (if needed):

  • Mon Nov 13th, 7-9pm

  • Wed Nov 15th, 7-9pm


If you cannot participate at these dates and times, fear not! You can participate by providing feedback on the work as it progresses as well as help implement the strategies recommended by the task force. Simply email Skitty at HRdirector@thecspc.org and she will include you in the discussion.


This is the first of many changes to come. There will likely be another disappearing task force early in the new year to address other aspects of the CSPC’s consent policy and practices. It will take a community of volunteers to shape and implement the many improvements we all envision. Let’s get to work!

Community Matters

Volunteer News

Huge gratitude for all the volunteers who helped make The Frolic an event to remember–and that includes all our participants! Everyone stepped up to work at least one shift setting up, helping in the kitchen, working security, checking the Honey Buckets, picking up trash, facilitating orientation, assisting with workshop setup, striking all our equipment… it took a village to make that sexy village happen!

Ready to take your volunteering to the next level? Join us for Registration and Monitor Volunteer Training via Zoom on September 6! Registration will be taught 7-8 p.m. and Monitor training will be 8-9 p.m. at the same link. 

Not yet a volunteer? Complete your online volunteer orientation and application here to become part of the team that makes the hotness happen! There are plenty of ways to volunteer at parties and behind the scenes.

Board News

A new slate of officers and Directors of the CSPC’s functional areas was voted in at the August meeting. We are pleased to welcome the following Board members to these roles:

Officers

  • President: Eirikah

  • Vice President: Jadzia

  • Secretary: 7

  • Treasurer: MaryAnne

Functional Area Directors

  • Communications Director: Mina (newsletter; social media; Discord; website content; other marketing)

  • Events Director: Jadzia (event planning and execution; volunteer training and event staffing)

  • HR Director: Skitty (volunteer and member services; consent advocacy; incident reporting; conflict resolution)

  • Operations Director: 7 (facilities; finance; technology including website, database management, ticketing, etc.; infrastructure/assets)

Stewardship Day Tomorrow, August 5--Join Us!

Awesome CSPC Members! 

Register for The Frolic stewardship day on the CSPC event page.

Date: Saturday, August 5 

Time: 10 a.m. – 3 p.m. 

Payment: free meal for you + jokes, smiles, and camaraderie 

Our own Frolic Stewardship opportunity in Buckley at Grove Getaways will be Saturday, Aug 5 and they will feed us! I just need to tell them how many to expect so they have enough food to feed everyone. 

Not registered for The Frolic (yet)? No problem! All are welcome at the stewardship event! You can scope out the space and then buy your tickets - and start scheming your Frolic shenanigans while you work! 

Please register on the event page to receive all the necessary information and make sure we can plan appropriately for dinner! 

This is outdoor work: cleaning, landscaping, building etc., to each person's capacity. Bring gloves, a water bottle, and wear "get dirty" clothes (not that kind, the other kind). The event starts around 9:30–10 a.m. Stay as long as you are able. Feel free to bring your own tools, but make sure they have your name on them. 

These are amazing people and you are sure to have a good time. You will leave tired in body but reenergized in spirit! 

Sign up today! 

Thank you! 

Larry & The Frolic Team

Frolic Reminders

Tickets are getting picked up quickly! Get your tickets for The Frolic today! 

Setup/Strike Volunteers Needed

Want to pick your camp spot early and eat yummy gyros? Arrive between 8 a.m. and 12 p.m. on Monday, August 14 for setup. We'll have gyros for dinner. Strike on Sunday includes dinner. You are welcome to stay over but you don't have to. The best part… The Queen of setup and strike is in charge! (And it's not me, says Turtle.) 

Email Turtle to sign up for setup/strike! Frolic@thecspc.org

Kinksters Got Talent!

Friday night, August 18, the entertainment is all of you uniquely talented individuals! Without question, we have some of the most uniquely talented individuals on this precious earth attending The Frolic this year. As such, we are basically all but required to give you an opportunity to showcase those talents.

As we welcome people from all walks of life, we welcome all forms of talent to this show. Throw your propriety to the wind, and share those secret talents you’ve been hiding.

Get creative! Can you juggle dildos? Can you pick up a dumbbell with your penis? Play the flute with your vagina? Make your boobs dance in opposite directions? Do you have a comedy routine you’d love to share? Or a monologue about pooping at work? Now is the time to bust out your favorite scene from The Vagina Monologues or refresh your best dance routines.

Sign-ups will be available during The Frolic leading up to the event on Friday night, so be sure to sign up early if you want to set the bar high and catch the audience while they’re fresh! 

Are you so talented that you’re not sure what would be best to share, or worried your talent might violate an existing rule for the camp? Feel free to reach out to The Frolic entertainment team for advice and approval at frolicentertainment@thecspc.org and remember that standard camp rules apply.

Flee Market! 

"Hold on a second! Don't you mean Flea Market?" 

"Nope! I meant Flee!" 

Get your extra gear that is gathering dust, that corset you never wear, those special books, cuffs, leather, latex, spanking bench… Clean it up and bring it to our mini Frolic market. Buy, sell, trade…then flee the market to try out your new treasures! 

Are you a maker or creator? Bring your kinky goods to sell! You must be attending The Frolic to participate. No, we are not taking a cut. We just want to support our community members! Email Turtle or Larry at frolic@thecspc.org with questions!