This is the fourth of our spotlights on community members who help out the CSPC in leadership positions. In this issue, we’ve asked some questions to get a deep and personal look at our Board Member, Rachel, who specializes in policy, ethics, and consent.
Name:
Rachel Drake
Pronouns:
she/they
How do you identify?
Ethically non-monogamous: solo-poly-swinger, queer, kinky switch, CNC submissive.
How long have you been with the CSPC?
8 years
What was your path to your current position?
I served as the Entertainment and Education Director for New Horizons Adult Social Club for several years producing 350+ sex-positive adult parties and events. I was a professional event planner/manager, and have served on the BoD and consulted for numerous non-profits for three decades.
Which CSPC event is your favorite and why?
My favorite parties are when I get to see people feeling confident, sexy and safe.
Career:
In addition to working on my degree, I currently coach individuals, communities, and organizations in improving their consent and accountability practices. I am also an educator, speaker, and author, currently I am working on my second book.
What do you like to do in your free time?
I enjoy printmaking, flow arts, picnics in weird places, surprise shenanigans, going to the beach to watch the sunset and the moon rise.
Fun fact:
My Pandemic “Drive-thru” BINGO card is almost full! So far I have: Drive-thru margaritas, Drive-thru protest, Drive-thru graduation, Drive-thru movie, Drive-thru rave and Drive-thru strip club!
Turn-ons:
Creativity and interesting conversations are big turn-ons for me.
Hopes and concerns for the sex positive community:
The pandemic has been hard on the greater sex-positive community. My hope is that this time will be beneficial in that people take the time to get to know themselves and what they want to explore.
Advice for a new member or volunteer:
Don’t be afraid to speak up and make suggestions, step up and create something you have always fantasized about, ask lot’s of questions! There is a lot to learn and much of the culture is community specific.
Is there an event or organization, outside of the CSPC, that you feel our community should know about?
If you are looking for a way to learn more about consent or build healthy consent practices in your life: www.consent.academy. If you want to know more about Transformative Accountability: Transformative ACCOUNTABILITY FAQ — Rachel Drake Transformations