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The Frolic: Thank You, Community (and Pic Gallery!)

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It's been only four days since we were all together, but right now it's as if I can close my eyes and you are all still next to me if I only reach my hand out! This event was more meaningful than most due to the sheer quantity of transformation I was honored to witness. Thank you for allowing yourself to be vulnerable and become More. It's scary, and I was proud of the support and love the entire family gave. To quote Dev, "You saw Dev, for Dev, and let me be me." You are definitely all folx I hope to get to know more fully. However, if I don't, I know I was privileged to be in the presence of this group as we slipped the time stream to exist in a parallel dimension if only for a moment. (It was so weird to drive again.)

My personal goal was to create an atmosphere where people could drop the everyday mask they use between themselves and the world, even within their minds. A place so accepting that you could see your whole self for the first time and say, "Damn, I like me! All of me." I believe we spend so much time sorting ourselves as humans over aspects we have no control over and that those, ultimately, are the smallest real percentage of who we can be. Humanity uses these things to hurt each other. I dream of seeing each other's greatness, holding each other up before we fall, and teaching each other what we already know deep inside. We are each incredible! We are simultaneously unique and the same. We are one together but separate. We can be creative and build on each other's ideas. Not to steal but to help us all be MORE! Always giving credit to those who came before, struggling through a different paradigm but setting the stage for the next to come as we shall do now for those turning their attention our direction.

One person said, "But I'm only six years in. I'm still a baby. I still get mentors!" Of course you do! But you are now a journeyman, no longer an apprentice. It's time to teach those coming in all that hard-won wisdom. We had many presenters step up to give varied and distinct options as we know we have a multitude of newer people in our community. We want so badly for you all to experience success and to know just how versatile all these play options are. How deep you can go safely and be prepared for it.

I personally had a great deal of fun teaching my classes. Especially when someone exclaimed during my Energy Play class, "Oh my God, it's real!" I loved doing some intense energy work with a few special people ready to move to the next level and read a bit of tarot. It was awesome being around so many energy workers and readers! 

I reveled in all the lovely compliments I heard about other presenters and super volunteers! I sincerely love seeing people succeed and that special smile on their face as they glow. The Talent Show was one of the best I've been involved in. The Saturday Flee Market was sweet and the Thursday Tastings incredible as I watched the self-discovery process. I wish I could have seen the Saturday night event. I need to hear your stories. I went back to my tent to change and fell asleep on the floor. When I woke up, it was quiet. LMAO! I meditated and climbed in my sleeping bag.

High points were getting to meet Seq and Auto whom I've known for two years but never met in person. I also made a new DJ buddy! The Wicked Wordplay writers let loose at the Talent show! Wowza! I'm so proud of how my team stepped up and into any issues that came up. And the Rock Game—reminding that same beautiful team to have fun!

Keep using the Frolic Discord whenever a memory comes up…and maybe we'll have a mid-year reunion…inside!

Love, Turtle

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The Frolic: Transformational Experiences

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Communication

By a Good Bun

What words do I use to communicate The Frolic?

Prior, it was a favor for a friend

Post, it was a community of friends.

Who am I?

            Prior, a girl, fresh into womanhood and full of shame

Post, a woman proud, sexy and full of determination.

What do I want?

                    Prior, I feel what I feel. I want you to know. But you cannot, you will not Want it

Post, I ask you. You tell me. I get what I want because I am worth it.

Ask me, I might!

Will this fade?

Prior, I am drifting, chasing the Void and periling my own well being

Post, I am not sure. I hope to be permanently changed.

Post, I know the truth will be much harder.

Post, I will get what I want because I am worth it.

My Frolic Transformation

By Bridgette

I spent a whole week in a relative paradise. I didn't notice anyone being reticent or avoidant. More, I *felt* like at no point was I looked down upon for being dressed as I wanted to. I introduced myself as Bridgette, and meant it without it being in the back of my mind that they needed or were entitled to my still legal name. I worked security without pants. Panties or skirt out. I walked around with my backpack with a bikini top. At no point did I feel like someone was uncomfortable around me. At this point, it almost doesn't matter if I was oblivious and someone was. In the area and time of Frolic, I was me without fear. Real life now gets me with a new level of confidence. Without much remorse or sympathy for people that wish to not notice or see me. They now get to deal with it. This buzz may fade, and my old caution may return, but it hasn't yet!


The Frolic spurred many deep, often intense, discussions between partners, friends, and people who would no longer be strangers. Paradigms shifted. This entry is from an anonymous source after one such conversation. —Turtle

By Anonymous

In an emotional transmission, one of my partners asserted that, among other things, she did not want to be my wife.

In the hours that followed, I realized that I do want a wife. I want a primary nesting partner, an anchor, someone with whom to mutually share the full threads of our existence. I want us to always know where the other is, when we expect to hear from them next, and when relevant, what is for dinner.

I am grateful for what I share with my partner, and for the realization about myself that she spurred in me.

Some lessons are very hard. I am still grateful. If something is true, then I want to know. Especially if it is about myself or a loved one.

To my partner: I love you, babygirl. <3

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The Frolic: People Are Saying...

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"There is an undeniable magic that happens when this community gets together in the woods. This was my second year and once again, those who arrived as strangers become friends and lovers. Together we held a safe space for each of us to express who we are and experiment with who we could become. I left feeling seen and welcomed." —Freebird

"I didn't know I needed waffles until there were waffles!" —anonymous

"Today I got all emotional doing laundry remembering all the fun I had in various outfits, particularly the onesie. I tried to find a better laundry setting because 'normal' did not seem to fit, and 'kinky' was not an option." —Anthropic 

"Someone wrote on the pick up play board for a stunt bottom to practice techniques from the Digital Orgasm class. Can I just write, 'me too!' under it?" —heard three times from three different people

"So lovely seeing everyone share their experiences. There was so much going on, I wish I could have experienced it all. For me, one of the highlights was meeting so many people with different kinds of families, friendships, and relationships. You really made me feel seen and welcomed! You are all wonderful people." —Allen

"Why is everyone telling me about consent? Is it because I'm the consent person?" —Seq

"Um…no. It's because it's a Kinky Kindness Bingo square!" —Turtle

"I experienced an unparalleled level of spontaneous community, body positivity, and acceptance that still have me glowing. I've never received, nor been so able to take in, the sort of positive attention and compliments I got in spades at The Frolic, and I am doing my best to hold onto all the highlights as reminders of my self-worth and sexiness. Inspired by everyone who worked hard to make it happen and so looking forward to future kinky camping opportunities." —betwixt

"I'll never be able to look a pony girl in the face again after that story!" —overheard anonymously in the dark

"As a socially awkward kid new to the CSPC, I was really nervous to go to Frolic alone. I'm really glad that I pushed myself to do it though: by meeting people at Frolic I now feel a lot safer attending other CSPC events by myself, because I'll definitely know people there. Thanks everyone for being so welcoming!" —GB (GoodBoy)

"Power Bottom!" [nuff said] —entire audience

"I hope he didn't get any pubic hairs caught in the guitar strings." —overheard in the dark

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Stewardship Day Tomorrow, August 5--Join Us!

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Awesome CSPC Members! 

Register for The Frolic stewardship day on the CSPC event page.

Date: Saturday, August 5 

Time: 10 a.m. – 3 p.m. 

Payment: free meal for you + jokes, smiles, and camaraderie 

Our own Frolic Stewardship opportunity in Buckley at Grove Getaways will be Saturday, Aug 5 and they will feed us! I just need to tell them how many to expect so they have enough food to feed everyone. 

Not registered for The Frolic (yet)? No problem! All are welcome at the stewardship event! You can scope out the space and then buy your tickets - and start scheming your Frolic shenanigans while you work! 

Please register on the event page to receive all the necessary information and make sure we can plan appropriately for dinner! 

This is outdoor work: cleaning, landscaping, building etc., to each person's capacity. Bring gloves, a water bottle, and wear "get dirty" clothes (not that kind, the other kind). The event starts around 9:30–10 a.m. Stay as long as you are able. Feel free to bring your own tools, but make sure they have your name on them. 

These are amazing people and you are sure to have a good time. You will leave tired in body but reenergized in spirit! 

Sign up today! 

Thank you! 

Larry & The Frolic Team

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Frolic 101: The Basics

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Figuring Out the Basics of The Frolic! 

  1. Join The Frolic group on FetLife in order to coordinate rides, tent and gear sharing, as well as to plan scenes. https://fetlife.com/groups/224072 

  2. Join The Frolic channel on our Discord server. Access it through the CSPC Discord. There is a link on the bottom of our webpage. https://thecspc.org/ 

  3. It is your responsibility to arrange transportation to and from The Frolic. Carpooling and public transportation are viable options. 

  4. There are local grocery stores, restaurants, and hotels if needed within a 10–20 minute drive. 

  5. Ask questions! Previous attendees and Frolic staff are a wealth of knowledge!

  6. There will be a dorm tent for those without a tent. (No privacy) 

  7. There will be breakfast, lunch, and dinner each day. A Hospitality area will be open all day with coffee, tea, other refreshments (like lemonade), as well as various small snacks meant to tide people over or help them after scenes. 

  8. There will be portable toilets, outdoor showers, an ADA shower, pool, hot tub, campfires, indoor dungeon, outdoor play area, community room, classroom, outdoor eating area, and tons of fun!

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Gear Up: What to Bring to Frolic

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Still haven't registered because you aren't sure what you'd need to bring? Here are the beginnings of a handy list. 

WHAT SHOULD I BRING? 

You are camping, so bringing proper supplies is important! 

  • Camp chair!!! 

  • Tent (each person will be allowed up to 10x10 feet. Please do not bring something bigger if you are camping alone! Space is limited!) 

  • Bedding (air or foam mattress, sleeping bag or blankets, something to insulate you from the cold ground) 

  • Towels, personal toiletries, medications, etc. 

  • Plates, cups, and cutlery! A MUST! We do NOT provide dishes.

  • Water and any additional food/snacks for the week. Running water is available for refills. 

  • Camp stove and fuel if you wish to heat or cook anything in addition to the meal plan (we expect there will be some access to grills, but propane will be quite limited unless you bring your own) 

  • Bug spray, sunscreen, and sunglasses 

  • Flashlights or other lighting 

  • Decor for your camp! Make it your own! 

  • Toys to play with 

  • Special outfits! 

  • Safer sex supplies 

  • Self-care and recovery items 

  • Items to sell or trade at the Flee Market 

  • Games or crafts to share/do 

  • An act for the Talent Show! 

This list will continue to be updated! Send suggestions to frolic@theCSPC.org

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See a Friend, Make a Friend

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By Turtle 

I'd like to acknowledge that we all have things that hold us back when we go to new events. There's anxiety and fears. We worry about a lack of opportunity and that not enough people there may be similar to us. We each get bogged down in circular thinking that creates a miasma of assumptions. We assume that: people might not want to be our friend, they already have enough friends, there's no room for us. These are all paradigms residing in our minds that have no basis in reality. But that does not make them any less real. We can change that perception though, and really create a situation where we can be successful, meet new people, and create lifelong friendships in less than a week.

First, everyone likes to proclaim, "Don't be afraid!" I'm always a little worried when someone starts something with the word, "Don't." It has such a negative impact on me. To start with, be actively present and hold that as a positive. When I'm having anxiety, thinking about "don't do" just amps my anxiety. Instead, think about being actively present and in the moment. Stay here…Present. Looking at whoever and whatever is around me rather than existing deep in my head helps me notice the details that surround me, and maybe something interesting about someone else that I might talk to.

Distance makes a difference as well. Invariably, it’s easier to wait for others to approach, to sit far away. Then the expectation of disappointment comes to remind me that without risk, there is no reward. No matter how hard it is, how much I want to sit as far away from everyone as possible, I try to sit closer. Invariably, because we're at camp, someone will say, "Hey, do you want to join us?" I love that generosity by other camp members. The gratitude I have for other campers and their ability to just open up their hearts to make room for more is incredible.

Shared Interests 

Call to shared interests by wearing or carrying an unusual object or clothing item, something that is likely to be noticed by others. For example, if you're wearing a Doctor Who shirt, other people who like Doctor Who are gonna go, "Hey, who is your favorite Doctor?" Recently, during the Pride Parade, I must have waved to a couple dozen other people that all had on the exact same shirt I wore. And we all screamed and went on about it. In the middle of 300,000 people, it was epic.

Next, take a little piece of paper and write down a dozen topics that you enjoy talking about, common and uncommon interests, then just put it in your pocket. When you're uncertain of what to talk about and other people are just kind of quiet, you can just reach in your pocket and touch it. You don't even have to pull it out, but it will remind you of your topic starters and that makes it nice and easy to jump in.

Invite people in 

You can bring your crafts and games. Head up to the tables for that. People will come over to share and see what you're doing. "Oh, are you knitting? I like to knit." "Can you show me how to knit?" "Oh, you have that game? Can I play that game? I would love to play that game!" Once, I saw folx play a game for eighteen hours. There were 20 people and I just could not believe they went on that long, but they ended up asking all of us to bring them food, so it must have been quite the game!

Remember that most everyone is experiencing the same feelings. Even if walking up to say hi is difficult, try to smile, make eye contact, and give a little wave from a distance. Even those people who appear popular have their own doubts.

The leads have all known each other for a while. Approach a lead, they can introduce you around to a few friendly faces.

Volunteering to Help 

Do you see someone struggling to carry something? Go volunteer to help them. "Hi!" goes with it. Are they having a hard time juggling some plates? Go say, "Can I help you?" They're having a hard time unloading? "Can I help you unload your car?" "Can I help you put up your tent?" "Can I help you carry that?" and instantly you've made a good impression. 

Practice your walk and talk 

Role play before you go and don't necessarily make up a new character. Choose a part of your personality that you already have that needs more "out" time. Be genuine. Be polite with things you don't like. Breathe and try to relax. Let people like you for you. You already have aspects that people are going to like–let them. 

If you're taking a friend with you to camp, then make more friends. Actively create a welcoming atmosphere for people to join your group. Meet people at meals or lounging in the pool. Notice who is in your workshops and meet them at meals and campfires. If you see someone sitting alone, ask them if they'd like company or join them around the campfire.

You are already Friends! 

Talk to everyone like you are already friends. "I'm hungry, want to go in search of snacks?" Leave off the small talk and dig for some shared middle ground. "What do you enjoy doing?" "What is awesome about that kink?"

If you start to feel panic, open your chest, roll your shoulders back, lift your head and breathe. What is around you? Who is around you? Is there an event interesting to you? Do you find yourself sitting away from everyone? Move closer if you can. Talk to camp staff. Ask open-ended, honest, and interested questions. Is there something you've always wondered but never thought to ask someone, and then someone is there who knows all about it? You go ahead. "Can I ask you ___________," and they'll say, "I don't know if I know the answer but go ahead and ask away."

Follow your Adventure 

Go do activities and meet people who are doing those things, too. If you want to go swimming, go swimming and meet the people there. You don't have to force yourself to go somewhere you're not interested in hoping that someone you might like is there. Do what you want to do so that you and the people you meet there will already have shared interests.

If you need a personal self-care time out, take it. Take care of yourself. Camp is about having fun and making incredible memories. Be good to you, and fun in community is sure to follow.

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Frolic Reminders

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Tickets are getting picked up quickly! Get your tickets for The Frolic today! 

Setup/Strike Volunteers Needed

Want to pick your camp spot early and eat yummy gyros? Arrive between 8 a.m. and 12 p.m. on Monday, August 14 for setup. We'll have gyros for dinner. Strike on Sunday includes dinner. You are welcome to stay over but you don't have to. The best part… The Queen of setup and strike is in charge! (And it's not me, says Turtle.) 

Email Turtle to sign up for setup/strike! Frolic@thecspc.org

Kinksters Got Talent!

Friday night, August 18, the entertainment is all of you uniquely talented individuals! Without question, we have some of the most uniquely talented individuals on this precious earth attending The Frolic this year. As such, we are basically all but required to give you an opportunity to showcase those talents.

As we welcome people from all walks of life, we welcome all forms of talent to this show. Throw your propriety to the wind, and share those secret talents you’ve been hiding.

Get creative! Can you juggle dildos? Can you pick up a dumbbell with your penis? Play the flute with your vagina? Make your boobs dance in opposite directions? Do you have a comedy routine you’d love to share? Or a monologue about pooping at work? Now is the time to bust out your favorite scene from The Vagina Monologues or refresh your best dance routines.

Sign-ups will be available during The Frolic leading up to the event on Friday night, so be sure to sign up early if you want to set the bar high and catch the audience while they’re fresh! 

Are you so talented that you’re not sure what would be best to share, or worried your talent might violate an existing rule for the camp? Feel free to reach out to The Frolic entertainment team for advice and approval at frolicentertainment@thecspc.org and remember that standard camp rules apply.

Flee Market! 

"Hold on a second! Don't you mean Flea Market?" 

"Nope! I meant Flee!" 

Get your extra gear that is gathering dust, that corset you never wear, those special books, cuffs, leather, latex, spanking bench… Clean it up and bring it to our mini Frolic market. Buy, sell, trade…then flee the market to try out your new treasures! 

Are you a maker or creator? Bring your kinky goods to sell! You must be attending The Frolic to participate. No, we are not taking a cut. We just want to support our community members! Email Turtle or Larry at frolic@thecspc.org with questions!

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Pre-Frolic 101 and Munch

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Both events are ONLINE and FREE! Find all the details here.

Pre-Frolic 101 - Wednesday, August 2

7:00-7:30 p.m.

How to Get the Most Out of The Frolic

Teachers: Turtle + Tristan

How is a kinky campout different from a regular campout? Come find out how to make the most out of your experience without wasting precious time!

Pre-Frolic Munch - Wednesday, August 2 

7:30-9 p.m.

Join your fellow kinksters for a pre-Frolic Community Munch starting right after the pre-Frolic 101, at 7:30 p.m. 

Join the fun and meet other campers before the weekend campouts begin. Build familiarity and perhaps plan shenanigans to look forward to!