Community Matters: CSPC COVID Protocols Member Survey

As we continue to surf the waves of COVID, we continue to be grateful for all the ways that our CSPC community has stepped up to help take care of each other’s safety by following the prevention protocols established when we re-opened for in-person events last year. As a reminder, those protocols are:

  • Reduced ticket sales to ensure the venue capacity allowed for social distancing;

  • Showing proof of vaccination at entry to any in-person event;

  • Mandatory masking except when actively eating, drinking, or using your mouth in a scene.

In response to the changes in public health recommendations, the Board expanded the cap on ticket sales from 100 to 120 in April 2022 so that more of our community could gather at our events. However, so far we have maintained our mandatory vaccination and masking policies for the safety of our membership and volunteers.

At this time, we’d like to ask YOU, our members and volunteers, to share your thoughts about the protocols we have in place, potential changes to those protocols, and how those changes might impact your sense of safety and willingness to attend or volunteer at in-person events in the next few months.

Please complete the CSPC Community Survey–COVID Protocols June 2022 by next Thursday, June 9, to let us know your preferences and ideas. This survey is anonymous and will take approximately five minutes to complete. The Board will use your feedback as we consider changes to our protocols.

Stay safe, stay sexy – The CSPC Board

Celebrating Juneteenth!

by Cass

Black Independence Day is coming!

What is that, you ask?

Juneteenth! The unofficial end of slavery was June 19, 1865, when General Gordon Granger informed slaves in Galveston, Texas, that they were free.

Did you know that Juneteenth is now recognized as a Federal Holiday? 

Celebrated on June 19 every year, Juneteenth is the first new Federal holiday instituted since Martin Luther King Day in 1983. 

What do you do on Juneteenth? 

Good question. People celebrate the same ways they do on July 4th, except no fireworks. There will be cook outs, community service projects, marches, and other commemorative events. 

Should you celebrate and participate in events happening? 

Damn right, you should! Check out your "What's Happening” page in your city for a list of events and organizations participating in this year’s Juneteenth celebrations. There will be events and activities happening all weekend. I am sure you will find something the whole family will enjoy! 

Love, your family @ The CSPC 

Welcome to Pride 2022!

by Eirikah Delaunay

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Want to join in and march with us? Click to read our Pride Parade FAQ.

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It’s time to celebrate the rainbow of beauties of our diverse authentic sexual and sensual selves! The mission of the Center for Sex Positive Culture is to “create spaces to celebrate, develop, and explore sexuality and sensuality among a diverse, supportive community,” and we can’t wait to share our Pride in who we are as individuals and as a community. 

The origins of Pride are political–held in June to commemorate the Stonewall Riots that fought for the human rights of LGBTQ+ folx. Today we have much to celebrate, yet we still have a long way to go to fully protect equal treatment under the law. For more information about the origins of Pride, visit https://www.them.us/story/the-complete-history-of-pride

The CSPC believes that authentic sexual identity should never stand in the way of safety, health, and prosperity for all. It’s always Pride at the CSPC!

We are excited to be hosting tables at Seattle Pride events on Capitol Hill on Saturday, June 25, and at the events at Seattle Center on Sunday, June 26. We’re also marching in the Pride Parade near Seattle Center on the morning of Sunday, June 26. We’d love to have you join us! 

We’re looking for 25 CSPC folx who can commit to meeting early Sunday morning with the rest of the CSPC marching contingent on 4th Ave. between Pike St. and S Washington St. for staging before the parade begins, then shaking their groove thing for the crowds for the next few hours as the parade moves through downtown, ending at Seattle Center. 

The parade organizers require that we share a roster of marchers with proof of COVID vaccination, so signing up in advance is essential. Email us at Pride@thecspc.org today to get on the list–dress up in your Pride finest and come toss swag to the crowds with us!

We’re also thrilled to present a special Pride edition of LaQueer: An LBGTQ+ Sex Positive Party on Saturday night, June 25, after the Pride events at Capitol Hill that day! Buy your tickets early and come party with us!

Consent Corner 2.14

by Emma Atkinson and Rachel Drake 

Hello again, sexy and sassy readers!  We hope you’re keeping it real, today and always.

We’ve been pondering the nature of authenticity recently, as we’ve had occasion to participate in events that more traditionally appeal to a younger demographic than yours truly.  Has this ever happened to you:  you’re somewhere and suddenly you feel different from others around you?  Maybe you belong to a different race or gender.  Maybe your cultural background or sexual orientation is different from almost everyone else’s.  Maybe you’re: younger, older, wearing a mask, not wearing a mask, wearing a veil, or “fill in the blank here.”  Have you ever felt like an outsider or thought that you might not belong there?  

In our view, authenticity means that you’re showing up in the world as your true self.  You know who you are and who you aren’t.  You’re aware of what you like and what you don’t like quite as much.  Authenticity is keeping it real.  

You don’t owe the world or anyone else any more or less than that.  When you show up in the world as your authentic self, you give the world a chance to adore you just as you are.  And, how amazing is that?  

Consent agreements work when all participants are true to themselves.  Good consent happens when real people are involved in the process.  And, where there’s good consent, good pleasure almost always follows. 

Homework:  please practice keeping it real, and share your real experiences with us (for real) at:  info@thecspc.org.

“Be excellent to each other” - Bill and Ted

“Be sexcellent to each other” - Emma and Rachel

Hump History Year Three: Third Time's a Charm

by Teeebone

As the Hump entered its third year of operation, about half of the original founding volunteers had left the roster for various reasons. We were fortunate that we were able to find people who shared the same kind of enthusiasm and dedication to the party as the initial team members. I’ve mentioned this before: keeping your party well staffed is a challenge that every Party Champion must face.

In late February, the Hump celebrated Mardi Gras with a King Cake, complete with a "Find the King Cake Baby" contest since it was so much fun the year before. The Hump theme selected by the winner of the contest was a "Hot Buns Night" which was held in July. This event also saw the debut of TK as one of our resident DJs.

In March, the Hump and a few other events got canceled for a week while the CSPC negotiated with an insurance carrier, though we were back online by the next week. During this month we also held a fundraiser to buy and replace the old futons.

In mid-June, there was some discussion about moving the Whump from third Wednesdays to first Wednesdays of the month. The push for this was that while the Whump was held in the RAW Dungeon, the monthly CSPC Board Meetings were being held in the Annex in approximately the same time slot. With a buffer of only 10 feet or so between these two spaces, music and noise would occasionally be heard during the meeting, so it was decided to move the Whump over to first Wednesdays starting in July.

In September, Cuddle Huddle was introduced as a regular feature during the cooler months of the year during the social on third Wednesdays. This event became very popular, bringing in 12-20 attendees wanting to experience and learn more about cuddling. Also included were discussions about touch, intimacy, consent, and boundaries.

By the end of the year, the Hump was scheduling fewer special features than it had in its previous two years. This was due partly to staff (and talent) exhaustion, but also the recognition that the Foundation for Sex Positive Culture (now the Pan Eros Foundation) was better suited for providing workshops and classes for the education of the membership in general. Cuddle Huddle continued, but special features became less frequent from now on.

On January 2nd, 2011 it was formally announced that the Hump had tied the Grind for the Members Choice Award for the 2010 Volunteer Awards. In the space of three years, the Hump had become a well-known fixture at the CSPC. Here are some of the compliments:

"I love the vibe and the people running and attending it."

"There are so many things I haven't tried yet. This party gives me and other new folks an opportunity to try new things in a safe place."

"Social time, good food, dancing, great music, great sex!"

"It's cool, laid back, sensual, conversational, intimate and not too kinky."

"I can actually hang out and talk because the music isn't too loud, but I can also play in the back. Nice having both a social and a play party together."

"Fresh, variety of themes. Excellent party hosts, first rate ambassadors, social and welcoming to everyone. The music is not overpowering. The variety of social-hour "mini workshops" on dance, community issues, etc. They have a better-than-a-cheese-plate food selection usually."

It took us three years to get there, but the Hump had managed to break all expectations in terms of attendance and partygoer experience. And 2011 was just getting started…

Until next time... :^)

The Frolic 2022: From Fantasy to Fulfillment - The Pathway to Yes

Save the date for The Frolic 2022, the CSPC’s members-only, weekend-long, kinky campout! We know it's getting close, and we promise tickets will go on sale soon. 

Due to popular demand, we’re holding two (that’s right, TWO) weekend campouts this summer on private property in Snohomish County, complete with meals, education, and kinky sexy play, each with their own unique flavor! Here's a little taste of what you have to look forward to… Anticipation makes everything so much yummier!

Weekend 1 - July 22-24th - Know Yourself

Wants, Needs, Cravings

  • Featuring classes on Needle Play 101, Dessert Topping, Rope Skill Share, Finding and Sharing Boundaries, Finding Intimacy with an Uncomfortable Body, Power Dynamics, Sexy Communication Skills and more! 

  • Activities include outdoor fun and games (Lube slip-n-slide, anyone?), Campfire, and the Talent Show featuring the BDSM Dating Game!

Weekend 2 - Aug 5-7th - Know the Game

Mind, Body, Energy 

  • Featuring classes on Digital Orgasm (fingers), the 3 Minute Game, Needles that Hurt, Impact, Stomping, Playing with Skin, A View From My Knees, and so much more!

  • Activities include outdoor games, Campfire, a Kinky Carnival, and a surprise Saturday entertainment!

Things to look forward to that are different from The Frolic 2021: meals are included and Friday check-in as early as 10 am.

COVID policies: Proof of vaccination is required; masks are optional at this outdoor event.

Want to volunteer? Email frolic@thecspc.org 

Want to perform? Email tk@thecspc.org 

Welcome to All In!

by Jadzia, All In! Co-Champion

All In is called the Pan Party 

As in Pansexual and Pan gendered. 

But I think of the party as a party for everyone. 

Because it is All In. 

What is your kink? 

What do you find sexy? 

What power dynamic gets you off? 

At this party it is All In. 

If it is allowed at the Center for Sex Positive Culture, it is All In. 

If you would enjoy doing it in public, it is All In. 

If it is something you have never done before but have always wanted to do, it is All In. 

If it is something you do at every party you have ever been to, it is All In. 

The party is only as sexy, as hot, as intense, as fun as you make it–so come make it All In and more! Want to socialize? Do impact play? Bondage? Show off your fetish finery? Find a play partner or mentor? Have sex? This is the place and time! Our lights are high enough to see the whips, our music low enough to hear the moans. We will have food and social areas, sex space, play stations, and hard points- everyone is included! Any play sanctioned by The CSPC is on the table for this party. If you’re going to get messy, bring a tarp and check in with the EC! Whether you are gay, straight, queer, bi, cis, trans, gender non-conforming, dominant, submissive, a switch, top, or bottom, this party is for you.

Get your tickets today! Attendance is limited to 120, and tickets must be purchased online. If you have questions, please email us at allin@thecspc.org! To stay up to date as well as discuss play plans, rides, scene ideas, or any other mischievous debauchery, check out and join our Fetlife Group!

Kinderkritters: Wired

Artist credits: Character silhouette by Riddlr. https://riddlr0w0.carrd.co/

Kinderkritters is the CSPC's answer to ageplay and petplay events. Kinderkritters: Wired is a virtual event catering towards those interested in petplay, ageplay, and age regression. Join us on Zoom from 8-11 p.m. Pacific Time on Saturday, May 28, to bond, bark, purr and play with us! Precious interactions abound at these events hosted for and by littles, middles, caregivers, pets, and handlers. Whether you're looking to learn more about ageplay or petplay, or just looking for new friends to have a playdate with, we welcome all who are curious or brave enough to scamper, toddle, or pounce into the event!

What can one expect from a virtual ageplay and petplay event?

⦁ Show and tell - for showing off drawings, outfits, stuffies, toys, gear, and everything else to be proud of.

⦁ Story time - for those who want to be read to, or want to tell their own stories.

⦁ Discussion groups - for making friends, sharing ideas, and learning from peers.

⦁ Jackbox games - party games which can be hosted virtually via a livestream and played on many devices with internet access.

⦁ Chill section - in case anyone becomes overwhelmed and needs to take a breather, there will be a calmer and less structured section.

Please be mindful

Due to the nature of age regression and the risk of encountering childhood trauma triggers with both ageplayers and regressors, we ask all attendees to be especially vigilant about respecting consent and boundaries during the event, and to be mindful about the needs of other attendees. Attendees are also encouraged to self-soothe as is necessary; this is one of the major reasons why there will be a chill section. Verbal trigger warnings before discussing certain heavier topics are highly encouraged.

Get your tickets here–we can’t wait to play with you!

Have party-specific questions? Feel free to contact us at kinderkritters@thecspc.org.

Leadership Spotlight: Meet Jadzia!

This is the nineteenth of our spotlights on community members who volunteer with the CSPC in leadership positions. In this issue, we’ve asked some questions to get a deep and personal look at our super-volunteer and Party Co-Champion of the All In! Pan Party (coming next Friday, May 27!) and LaQueer, Jadzia Quacks.

  • Name and/or scene name:

    • Jadzia Quacks

  • Pronouns:

    • She/They

  • How do you identify (this can include gender, sexual orientation, kink or BDSM roles, etc.)?

    • Trans and Queer for gender and orientation. Kinkster is the best one word for my Kink and bdsm roles, though I am always exploring, always questioning. 

  • How long have you been with the CSPC?

    • I became a member in 2018 

  • What brought you here and what are your main areas of interest?

    • I had some experience with kink before before coming out as Trans and Queer, and before moving to Seattle, so I wanted to find play partners and community. More so I wanted to explore what sex, intimacy, and kink meant to me as a person who is Queer and Trans. I came to the Center for Sex Positive Culture because it advertised itself as a space that was body pody positive, sex positive, and inclusive of all gender expressions. I was not disappointed.

    • I enjoy impact play as a top or bottom. I like to push (firmly but slowly) at the edges of my comfort zone in regards to sex and intimacy. I also get off on helping others to explore their own understandings of those topics.

  • Email/title/role:

    • As Co-Champion of LaQueer and All In! I can be reached at LaQueer@thecspc.org or Allin@thecspc.org. I don’t have an official title with the Center, but I have at one time or another covered every position at an in-person event. Along with some others, I Champion LaQueer and the All In! Pan Party. I also co-host the Queer discussion group that meets online.

  • What was your path to your current position?

    • I started volunteering as a way to get into parties for free. It also gave me a reason to stand around and not feel awkward for standing around. I kept trying different roles as a way to push at the edges of my comfort zone and force myself to have some responsibility and accountability. When Sadie and Sakari were stepping back from hosting the All In! Pan Party, I took over co-Championing duties with another volunteer. Out of a need to secure an EC for that party, I took the steps to become certified for that role. Then when LaQueer was getting started again, people who were interested reached out to me and we made the party happen. Other than getting in for free, I like to volunteer because I like to help others have a space to explore as I did; and because I have never been the only Trans person at a CSPC party, I wanted to reinforce that visibility for myself and others. 

  • Which CSPC event is your favorite and why? 

    • LaQueer and All In! were my favorites before I became a lead in making them happen, and they still are. I love Fresh Meet because I am a Tasting Top there, and that party gives me the chance to help introduce new people to impact play as well as consent and negotiation. I have a lot of fun at Myself! and Power Play Mixed Tape as well. 

  • Career or day job (industry, position, or whatever you're comfortable sharing):

    • Video editing/graphic design.

  • What do you like to do in your free time?

    • Try to spend time with friends, build community, hunt for pervertables, learn more about kinky stuff. 

  • Living situation (partners, roommates, pets, plants):

    • I live with two roommates and one cat, who occasionally lets me pet him.

  • Something no one would ever guess about you or a fun fact:

    • I was born 9 months and 1 day after my parents were married.

  • Turn-ons and/or squicks:  

    • I love impact play, topping or bottoming. I find anyone who owns themselves to be sexy. I have only encountered a few things that squick me out, but I wonder if they will continue to do so over time.

  • Hopes and concerns for the CSPC and/or the greater sex positive community:

    • I just hope we keep the spreading the ideas of sex positivity, body positivity and consent culture, in whatever situation we find ourselves. 

  • Advice for a new member or volunteer: 

    • Spend some time deciding on what you want, and what is possible. Determine your boundaries and what zones of comfort exist around those boundaries. Don’t ever forget you have the ability to stop doing what you are doing. 

  • How can we build up each other? How can we be here for one another?

    • I think we need to define and maintain healthy boundaries, within ourselves and with others. I believe that doing that promotes healthy communities where we together or as individuals can be our true selves. 

Huge gratitude from the CSPC to Jadzia and our other volunteers! Interested in supporting your CSPC community by joining in the volunteer action? You can learn more and begin the volunteering process with the online orientation at https://thecspc.org/volunteering.